Deeper Debts Than Money
So I know a couple at work that just got divorced, Him and Her, and I happen to be friends with both of them. They both used to be alcoholics, but they've been sober for about ten years. But. I know from casual conversation that He has started drinking again. I have no idea to what extent, and I don't know how much He drank to begin with. I also know that She thinks He's not drinking.
Now, normally I wouldn't say anything, because it's His right to screw up His life, but He's taking care of their 5-year-old Daughter several days a week, so I'm conflicted.
I think I should tell Her.
Any thoughts on the blog-o-sphere?
2 comments:
have you thought of asking Him about the drinking,, directly? if you're His friend, he will probably find out that you told Her, anyway. or not. maybe just tell her. if the Child was hurt, you would not want that on your soul!
peace, hope it works out.
Thanks CR. I actually had lunch with Her today and brought it up. She's incredibly angry. She actually had to take the afternoon off to cool down. I'm a little worried about how He will react, but then again, I'm not that worried. It's his life, he's a big guy. He'll have to live with it.
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